Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart against emotional and sexual affair, you may end up “falling into these traps” with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.
No one gets married and plan to have an affair with someone they are not married to, but lots of married men and women are into emotional and sexual affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake in the spirit and with their five senses alert to AFFAIR PROOF their marriage and make it work to the glory of God.
🌹Don’t be too friendly with the opposite sex. This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality without the wisdom to set boundaries with the opposite sex no matter how spiritual you think they are will destroy your marriage! You can’t handle close friendship with the opposite sex as a married person.
Your heart is involved. Set boundaries. Be disciplined. Be cordial and respectful , and also be holy and godly.
🌹Don’t share your personal marital problems with an opposite sex. It will bond you together and the person may use it as an opportunity to destroy your marriage.
🌹Don’t contact any opposite sex you are fond of secretly. If you secretly admire them,it means you are fond of them and there is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don’t contact them!
Work on your emotions and let your heart be connected only to your spouse whom you’re married to.
Be wise!
🌹Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers for long with the opposite sex.
🌹Don’t tell an opposite sex you are romantic or sexy, that private information is for your spouse only.
It can gravitate into what you will not be able to control.
🌹Avoid discussions with the opposite sex when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick. This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband or wife instead.
🌹Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite sex if you are married.
Stop saying “I love you or l miss you” to the opposite sex, for what?
These are triggers for emotional and sexual affairs.
🌹Work on your marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance alive in your marriage!
🌹Never flirt with the opposite sex, never get too close to an opposite sex or visit them alone no matter how spiritual you think they are.
Be wise!
🌹Do not contact your EX after marriage to discuss the secrets or challenges of your family.
They will see it as an opportunity to cause a division between you and your spouse and eventually destroy your marriage.
🌹Don’t chat secretly with the opposite sex for financial assistance.
It can ruin your marriage.
🌹Stop focusing on your spouse’s weaknesses and appreciate their strengths.If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, critical and look for someone who you think can “understand” you and make you happy aside your spouse, that is the beginning of an emotional affair which will eventually lead to sexual affair. It is always the beginning of the end of a once glorious marriage!
FLEE from all appearance of evil is what the Bible says.
What you will not eat, don’t bring it close to your nose, don’t even smell it!
Don’t start what you cannot finish!
Avoid all emotional and sexual affairs, they will destroy your marriage!
May you not take a step that will lead to eternal regret in the name of Jesus.
Your marriage will not fail.
We love and celebrate you,
See you at the topmost top,
Enjoy your marriage.
THE ADEJUMOS.