WHO IS A REAL WIFE?


(Proverbs 31:10-31)

This woman is rare. Civilization and contemporary culture will not agree that this is who she should be.

It takes humility to set her as your standard and it takes consistency to attain her heights.
You have the grace to be her because you were made to be like her and more.

It is not exhaustive BUT ALL BASED ON SCRIPTURE.

  1. She subscribes to God’s word as the ultimate standard that should guide her conduct and shapes her person in marriage.
  2. She is more beautiful as a person through her character than she is by her dressing or her looks.
  3. She understands that ‘It is not good for man to be alone’
    She is available to her husband and does not render him ‘alone’ for any reason even when she is angry. She is an ever present help!
  4. She helps her husband: not waiting to be called in or begged for it, she knows her default role is to aid, enable and assist him to become all that God created him to become.
  5. She doesn’t say or do things that can break her marriage or destroy her home; she is a wise woman who builds her home.
  6. She understands that her husband is the final authority of her home. She knows this is not self acclaimed but God ordained.
  7. She understands that submission is not agreement, but the humble act of accepting what you do not necessarily think is the way.
    Even when she differs in opinion from her husband, she goes to God who is His Boss and not tear down the home fighting his authority. She persuades him with her views and not command him.
  8. She prays for her husband and children more than they can pray for themselves. She upholds them in the Spirit and enables them by the hand of God.
  9. She provides for her home. Yes, it is not a burden cast on her but one which she willingly takes on, she is productive.
  10. She strategically approaches her husband. She doesn’t manipulate him in the evil sense but studies and understands how to get the best of him.
  11. She leads by influence not by force. She rocks the head that wears the crown with her intelligence, comfort and tact.
  12. She satisfies her husband with her body. She watches, preserves and keeps it prime for his enjoyment!
  13. She is the peaceful atmosphere he comes into at all times.
    BE THE REAL WIFE TO YOUR HUSBAND!

We love and celebrate you,
See you at the topmost top,
Enjoy your marriage.
THE ADEJUMOS.

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